Leaving Facebook

I’m leaving Facebook.

As much as I can, anyway.  So I thought I’d write a quick post to explain what’s going on.  I thought there may be a few people who wonder what happened to my account, but maybe not.  Either way, here is what is going on:

I have created a separate Facebook account that I will use to manage a couple of Facebook pages I need to manage, such as the Church Facebook page.  I’ll also use it for community pages for news or Facebook marketplace, if needed.  I won’t be connecting with individuals though, as my goal is to disconnect from Facebook almost entirely.  Shortly, I’ll delete my old account and be done with it.  I do plan on posting pictures on my Instagram account, so if you do like those, you can find me there: https://www.instagram.com/thepulpiteer/

I have long considered getting out of Facebook.  As I considered the reactions I have in my heart towards people I know, as I read things they post or other behavior that goes on in social media, I have come to the conclusion that it is a net loss for me.  I know there are some good things.  I have had a few nice messages on messenger that I wouldn’t have had otherwise.  I have enjoyed things like kids’ Halloween costumes or Christmas pictures.  However, for me, the negatives have outweighed the positives.  Social media is not our real selves, and since I find that I either snooze a ton of people or end up irritated for a while after using facebook, then I am clearly wasting my time.  I am also increasingly wary of privacy issues.  Therefore, I am unplugging.

One final word. I do ask that you would please consider your own behaviors and communication patterns.  If a social media platform, or a political position, or some other thing is leading you to hate people in your life, then perhaps it is a good time for some self-reflection and setting priorities.  Everyone else around you may be reactive and angry, but that does not mean that you have to go along with them for the ride.

What is controlling you?

“Then God spoke all these words: I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery; you shall have no other gods before me.” -Exodus 20:1-2

“More than any other discipline, fasting reveals the things that control us.” -Richard Foster “Celebration of Discipline”

That quote from Richard Foster sticks with me. In my experience, when I am fasting, I discover that certain things have a grip on my heart in ways I was not aware of. “Idolatry” has been described as taking a thing, possibly even a good thing, and making it a God thing. When we put things in the place of God they become idols. This can even mean when we look to other things to fulfill needs that are meant to be fulfilled by God, they slip into becoming idols for us. A thing does not have to be bad in order for it to be an idol. It just has to be something we put into God’s place in our lives. I think it is helpful during times of prayer and fasting to ask what is shaping us. What are the things that have control over our lives? What are the things that we are looking to for meaning? As these things are revealed to us, our response ought to be repentance. We should turn back to God as we turn away from our idols.

Our lives are fleeting

We had a wonderful Ash Wednesday worship this year. One of the notable things during our Ash Wednesday service was that our youth attended, and our children from our Wednesday evening children’s program also came up to receive the ashes. The way we received ashes this year, was to come forward and kneel on the kneelers up front and I came and made the shape of the cross on each person’s forehead while saying, “Remember, O mortal, from dust you came, to dust you shall return, repent, and believe the gospel.” This is a call for each of us to remember our mortality and then to raise the question as to how we ought to live our lives and to repent and follow the Lord.

Contemplating my own mortality is enough of an exercise and challenge, but this Ash Wednesday I was struck by something I didn’t expect when it came to impose the ashes on my wife and my children. Continue reading “Our lives are fleeting”

Thoughts on Fasting

In his book on fasting, Dr. Scot McKnight calls Christians to an embodied spirituality. He writes, “We worship God and we love God in our bodies and with our bodies and in concrete, physical, tangible, palpable ways.” (Fasting p.2) In other words, the ways we use our bodies or do not use our bodies in our spiritual practices matter. We are not a soul living in a shell. We are physical and spiritual beings. In his book, “The Screwtape Letters,” CS Lewis points this out. He writes, “Humans are amphibians… half spirit and half animal… as spirits they belong to the eternal world, but as animals they inhabit time.” It’s interesting, but perhaps not surprising, that in another section of “The Screwtape Letters,” Lewis discusses the importance of kneeling for prayers. The things we do with our physical bodies matter in our spiritual lives. Continue reading “Thoughts on Fasting”

The Prayer of Simeon

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“Lord, you now have set your servant free to go in peace as you have promised; for these eyes of mine have seen the Savior, whom you have prepared for all the world to see: a Light to enlighten the nations, and the glory of your people Israel.” -Luke 2:29-32 (The prayer of Simeon)

The prayer of Simeon is included in a couple of my prayer books that I have used for daily prayer. It has had a special place in my heart for a couple of years now, ever since my wife’s sister named her boy, “Simeon.” My nephew comes to mind each time I pray it, as does Anne’s sister. And I am grateful for them.
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A Call to Advent

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Photo courtesy of adventconspiracy.org

“Most of us habitually miss it every year at Christmas. Our story is consumption and consumerism, and we’re obsessed with the climax. We worship less. We spend more. We give less. We struggle more.”
-from Advent Conspiracy by Rick McKinley, Chris Seay, and Greg Holder

I have great childhood memories of Christmas. It’s funny though, I remember only a few specific gifts. What I do remember is the excitement and anticipation. I remember how the time was special. We had special meals with extended family. We opened gifts together. I remember listening to Christmas music on the radio. Somewhere along the line of growing up, Christmas became a really crazy and busy time. I found it was too full of time commitments and there was not enough space to really contemplate anything, let alone the miracle and mystery of the Incarnation of Christ. And speaking of Christ, I also began to realize that the season ought to be shaped more by Jesus than by buying and receiving gifts, but that wasn’t true in my life. Was Christmas supposed to be a perpetual chasing of a nostalgic childhood joy while simultaneously fending off the shame of not fully recognizing the arrival of the Christ child? It’s exhausting.
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