I’m leaving Facebook.
As much as I can, anyway. So I thought I’d write a quick post to explain what’s going on. I thought there may be a few people who wonder what happened to my account, but maybe not. Either way, here is what is going on:
I have created a separate Facebook account that I will use to manage a couple of Facebook pages I need to manage, such as the Church Facebook page. I’ll also use it for community pages for news or Facebook marketplace, if needed. I won’t be connecting with individuals though, as my goal is to disconnect from Facebook almost entirely. Shortly, I’ll delete my old account and be done with it. I do plan on posting pictures on my Instagram account, so if you do like those, you can find me there: https://www.instagram.com/thepulpiteer/
I have long considered getting out of Facebook. As I considered the reactions I have in my heart towards people I know, as I read things they post or other behavior that goes on in social media, I have come to the conclusion that it is a net loss for me. I know there are some good things. I have had a few nice messages on messenger that I wouldn’t have had otherwise. I have enjoyed things like kids’ Halloween costumes or Christmas pictures. However, for me, the negatives have outweighed the positives. Social media is not our real selves, and since I find that I either snooze a ton of people or end up irritated for a while after using facebook, then I am clearly wasting my time. I am also increasingly wary of privacy issues. Therefore, I am unplugging.
One final word. I do ask that you would please consider your own behaviors and communication patterns. If a social media platform, or a political position, or some other thing is leading you to hate people in your life, then perhaps it is a good time for some self-reflection and setting priorities. Everyone else around you may be reactive and angry, but that does not mean that you have to go along with them for the ride.